About me
Hi, I’m Melissa!
I’m so glad you’re here. Starting therapy isn’t always easy, and it takes a lot of courage to take that first step. I’m really proud of you for showing up for yourself.
Helping kids and teens has always been my passion. I believe you’re the expert of your own story—and that you already have a lot of strengths, even if it doesn’t always feel that way. My job is to help you notice those strengths, build on them, and figure out new ways to handle the challenges life throws at you.
I’ve been working with teens and families for over 10 years in schools, hospitals, community programs, and residential care. I also have personal experience with foster care and adoption, so I really understand some of the unique challenges that come with family changes.
In our sessions, you can expect a safe, judgment-free space where you can be yourself. I use different approaches like CBT, DBT, and Trauma-Focused CBT, but what matters most is making sure therapy feels helpful and supportive for you.
Whether you’re feeling anxious, down, overwhelmed, or just trying to figure things out, I’m here to listen and to walk alongside you. You don’t have to go through it alone.
Looking forward to meeting you,
Melissa
Specialties
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
- Self esteem
- Depression
Also experienced in:
Addictions
,
LGBT
,
Family conflicts
,
Grief
,
Intimacy-related issues
,
Eating disorders
,
Sleeping disorders
,
Parenting issues
,
Anger management
,
Career difficulties
,
Bipolar disorder
,
Coping with life changes
,
Coaching
,
Compassion fatigue
,
ADHD
,
Abandonment
,
Adoption and foster care
,
Aging and geriatric issues
,
Antisocial personality
,
Attachment issues
,
Autism and Asperger Syndrome
,
Avoidant personality
,
BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
,
Blended family issues
,
Body image
,
Cancer
,
Caregiver issues and stress
,
Chronic pain, illness, and disability
,
Co-morbidity
,
Codependency
,
Commitment issues
,
Communication problems
,
Control issues
,
Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
,
Dependent personality
,
Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
,
Dissociation
,
Divorce and separation
,
Domestic violence
,
Drug and alcohol addiction
,
Eating and food-related issues
,
Emptiness
,
Family of origin issues
,
Family problems
,
Fatherhood issues
,
Fertility issues
,
First responder issues
,
Forgiveness
,
Gender dysphoria
,
Guilt and shame
,
Hearing impaired
,
HIV / AIDS
,
Hoarding
,
Hospice and end-of-life counseling
,
Immigration issues
,
Impulsivity
,
Infidelity
,
Intellectual disability
,
Isolation / loneliness
,
Jealousy
,
Life purpose
,
Men's issues
,
Midlife crisis
,
Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
,
Money and financial issues
,
Mood disorders
,
Multicultural concerns
,
Narcissism
,
Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
,
Panic disorder and panic attacks
,
Paranoia
,
Personality disorders
,
Phobias
,
Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
,
Postpartum depression
,
Post-traumatic stress
,
Pregnancy and childbirth
,
Prejudice and discrimination
,
Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
,
Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
,
Self-harm
,
Self-love
,
Sex addiction
,
Sexual assault and abuse
,
Sexual dysfunction
,
Sexuality
,
Smoking / vaping cessation
,
Social anxiety and phobia
,
Somatization
,
Traumatic brain injury
,
Trichotillomania
,
Visually impaired
,
Women's issues
,
Workplace issues
,
Young adult issues
Read more...
Clinical approaches:
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Existential Therapy, Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Narrative Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Somatic Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy, Internal Family Systems, Systemic Therapy
Years of Experience: 10
Services offered
Messaging
Live Chat
Phone
Video
Licensing
PA LCSW CW021317
Reviews
These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Melissa Ray. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with Teen Counseling might be different.
Written on Aug 07, 2026 after therapy with Melissa for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, family conflicts, grief, and coping with life changes
Respectful, understanding and straight to the point. Can't complain about her.
Written on Jul 20, 2026 after therapy with Melissa for 11 months
Melissa has been wonderful with my teenage daughter in helping her navigate the anxiety epidemic.
Written on Jun 22, 2026 after therapy with Melissa for 10 months on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, and parenting issues
Easy to talk with and confide in, compassiate with great insights.
Written on May 25, 2026 after therapy with Melissa for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Melissa is a very good listener, attentive and can handle my emotions and projections well. Makes me feel understood while also helps me process and arrive to steps to try to bring resolution.
Written on Apr 25, 2026 after therapy with Melissa for 5 months on issues concerning depression, lgbt, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, and adhd
A great Christian therapist. I hope everyone can check out teen counseling!
Written on Apr 19, 2026 after therapy with Melissa for 1 year and 2 months on issues concerning depression, and adhd
This is my first time doing therapy where I felt really comfortable with my therapist and able to be completely open and honest.
Written on Feb 09, 2026 after therapy with Melissa for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, coping with life changes, and adhd
She is amazing! She has definitely helped me to calm down and not be needing in patient help.
Written on Feb 03, 2026 after therapy with Melissa for 4 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, and parenting issues
Melissa was a great help with guiding me through some relationship issues I was having.
Written on Jan 27, 2026 after therapy with Melissa for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, self esteem, anger management, and adhd
I think that she really tries and listens and there's no judgment, and she's very easy to talk to and tries to help you through your thinking and I'm very attentive to how you feel
Written on Dec 22, 2025 after therapy with Melissa for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, anger management, and bipolar disorder
I’m happy she is my therapist
Written on Nov 07, 2025 after therapy with Melissa for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, grief, and coping with life changes
Melissa is kind and compassionate and really listens to you and offers good advice.
Written on Oct 06, 2025 after therapy with Melissa for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and career difficulties
She is amazing!
Written on Aug 14, 2025 after therapy with Melissa for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Thank you for being the neutral, judge free ear I needed to take me out of my depression.
Written on Jul 29, 2025 after therapy with Melissa for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, self esteem, and anger management
Melissa has been very helpful and is a joy to work with
Written on Jul 17, 2025 after therapy with Melissa for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and coping with life changes
I am thankful for the resource and having Melissa to partner with my specific needs.
Written on Jul 14, 2025 after therapy with Melissa for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, and coping with life changes
Professional and knowledgeable
Written on Jun 12, 2025 after therapy with Melissa for 4 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, and parenting issues
I am so thankful I discovered this app
Written on Dec 21, 2024 after therapy with Melissa for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, anger management, and adhd
Was very nice and explored my ideas and thinking to help me improve on the way I introduce new things to myself.
Written on Oct 29, 2024 after therapy with Melissa for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, self esteem, and coping with life changes
I love Melissa's approach to therapy. She asks the right questions and her responses help me feel validated and safe. I appreciate the words of encouragement that she intuitively knows to say even when I didn't realize I needed to hear it myself. I highly recommend Melissa!
Written on Oct 18, 2024 after therapy with Melissa for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, self esteem, anger management, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
My therapist is gentle and displays calm kindness that I need. Therapy with her has been an answer to prayer.
Written on Aug 20, 2024 after therapy with Melissa for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, grief, and coping with life changes
Melissa is a tactful therapist with considerate responses and engagement.
Written on Jun 25, 2024 after therapy with Melissa for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, eating disorders, and self esteem
Melissa has been a great help to me. I have been struggling with depression and anxiety from past traumas for most of my life. I've tried counseling and therapy several times over the years, but this is the first time I have stuck with it. Melissa is easy to talk to, respectful, non judgemental, and knowledgeable. She really listens and hears me. Her advice is appropriate and effective. I feel I've made good progress with her and plan to stay with her for a while. I highly recommended Melissa Ray.
Written on Jun 09, 2024 after therapy with Melissa for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, parenting issues, anger management, and coping with life changes
Melissa really listened to my needs and helped a lot.
Written on Jun 02, 2023 after therapy with Melissa for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, and trauma and abuse
So far my thoughts of Melissa are she’s caring and very supportive.
Written on Apr 12, 2023 after therapy with Melissa for 5 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, and self esteem
Enjoy speaking with her when I can. She always listens to what I have to say or my worries.
Written on Mar 29, 2023 after therapy with Melissa for 2 months
Responds timely, very informative and shows concern. I am very comfortable with my son communicating with her.
Written on Mar 28, 2023 after therapy with Melissa for 1 month
So far my daughter Riley is very comfortable with Melissa and looks forward to her sessions.
Written on Sep 27, 2022 after therapy with Melissa for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and parenting issues
Don't know quite yet, only one session so far
Written on Aug 15, 2022 after therapy with Melissa for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, coping with life changes, coaching, and adhd
she’s an excellent communicator and really understanding especially with busy schedules
Written on Jul 11, 2022 after therapy with Melissa for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, and anger management
She’s awesome:))
Written on May 21, 2022 after therapy with Melissa for 2 days on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, self esteem, and adhd
This therapist looks experienced, but not a good match for me I would like to see who is available
Work with me!