About me

The teenage years can be challenging for teens as well as for their parents as the teen seeks independence as they prepare to become an adult. Teens are learning to make their own choices (sometimes not the choices the parents would make for them), choose an identity, find their peer group. And, this can lead to experimenting with new ideas, changes in mood, and, changes in interests and goals. Parents may feel at a loss with all these changes and challenges. But, staying the course, continuing to offer guidelines and support, maintaining open communication in a structured and supportive environment will assist the teen in reaching his/her full potential. Parents must also be aware of early warning signs and how to get the help/support they need to get their teen back on track.

I have worked significantly with children 1-21 and their families in homes/foster/adoptive homes, school, community, group homes, juvenile detention facilities for the majority of the 27+ years I have been a therapist . I have also worked with children in military families within a school/home/community setting. I have helped these families navigate difficulties, gain increased positive communication, and, improved relationships. I hear both the teen and the parents and can bridge that gap with guidance and support while bringing in school/community to provide the teen and their parents with a more cohesive and fulfilling environment. I hold LCSW (Licensed Clinical Social Work) licenses in both Wisconsin (8198-123) and California (29109).


Specialties

  • Stress, Anxiety
  • Relationships
  • Family conflicts
  • Self esteem, Motivation
  • Depression
Also experienced in:
LGBT , Trauma and abuse , Grief , Intimacy-related issues , Parenting issues , Anger management , Career difficulties , Coping with life changes , Coaching , Compassion fatigue , ADHD , Abandonment , Adoption and Foster Care , Read more...

Clinical approaches:
Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Mindfulness Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy

Years of Experience: 27

Services offered


  • Messaging

  • Live Chat

  • Phone

  • Video

Licensing

ND LCSW 6242

WI LCSW 8198-123

CA LCSW 29109

NV LCSW 10384-C

AZ LCSW 20498


Reviews

These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Mary Allen. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with Teen Counseling might be different.

Written on Apr 18, 2024 after therapy with Mary for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

I have had one session so far with Mary Allen and I have a very good feeling about what we can achieve working together. I didn’t not expect we be in contact so much even outside of our sessions . Mary Allen spent a huge amount of time before and in between our session collecting information from us in order to be prepared to work during session . Very satisfied with this service so far.

Written on Feb 28, 2024 after therapy with Mary for 7 months on issues concerning relationship

Very helpful

Written on Dec 04, 2023 after therapy with Mary for 3 years and 4 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, self esteem, and career difficulties

Great to talk to and have been flexible with my job schedule changes and has learned and listen through my changes in my life events and achieve my goals .

Written on Oct 11, 2023 after therapy with Mary for 3 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, career difficulties, and coping with life changes

Mary Allen is amazing! She has helped me work through the darkest time of my life and I can not praise her wisdom and guidance enough! She really does listen and gives you great tools to help you through the tough times. I look forward to our sessions every week just to feel the sense of relief after we are finished with our conversation!

Written on Sep 24, 2023 after therapy with Mary for 3 years on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd

Mary has been lovely. I have worked with her for nearly 3 years and feel that she has really listened to my concerns and continues to offer me both compassion in the moment and constructive encouragement & options for furthering my well being.

Written on Apr 16, 2023 after therapy with Mary for 6 months on issues concerning trauma and abuse

Mary Allen is a very experienced therapist who is always there for you.

Written on Mar 07, 2023 after therapy with Mary for 5 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, and parenting issues

As a parent with an adult child with bipolar and other mental issues, Mary has been able to help me through some very rough times. She’s awesome!

Written on Sep 29, 2022 after therapy with Mary for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, grief, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes

Absolutely wonderful. Mary Allen is professional, knowledgeable and easy to open up to. She asks open ended questions that allow you to discover yourself.

Written on Sep 06, 2022 after therapy with Mary for 7 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, and compassion fatigue

Working with Mary Allen has been such a blessing… not only is she an expert in her field but she also has the personality that allows me to talk openly, like to a friend, and feel heard. She has such a gentle way about her while also being honest and amazing advice/ feedback. She really helps me see things from a different perspective and consider different choices/views. I can’t thank her enough for all of the help and support she has provided me! I recommend her to anyone needing a good quality therapist!

Written on Aug 29, 2022 after therapy with Mary for 1 year on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, self esteem, and career difficulties

She has helped me tremendously through some tough times and spots in my life. I have really gotten myself on track with her help.

Written on Aug 09, 2022 after therapy with Mary for 4 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, sleeping disorders, self esteem, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue

Mary has been wonderful. I like that she challenges my ideas and listens to me.

Written on Aug 06, 2022 after therapy with Mary for 6 months on issues concerning relationship

Very attentive to details and helps us with our progress. Good listener.

Written on Jun 21, 2022 after therapy with Mary for 11 months

Mary is a wonderful and trustworthy counselor. She always answers me thoughtfully and gives me so many options and solutions.

Written on Jun 18, 2022 after therapy with Mary for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, grief, career difficulties, coping with life changes, coaching, and compassion fatigue

Mary Allen is by far the best therapist I've ever had, and it's taken me a few to find someone who gels as well as she does. She listens and offers advice without dumbing things down or ignoring the other work I've already put in. She also checks in frequently and it really feels like she cares and goes the extra mile. I really look forward to our conversations- not just because they help so much but because she is honestly a lot of fun and so easy to talk with!!!

Written on Apr 15, 2022 after therapy with Mary for 1 year on issues concerning stress, anxiety, lgbt, parenting issues, and self esteem

Mary Allen was fantastic to work with. She is caring, genuine and has a wealth of experience and expertise. She gave me tools to make a really positive impact on my life.

Written on Mar 18, 2022 after therapy with Mary for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, coping with life changes, coaching, compassion fatigue, and adhd

She listened and provided feedback and suggestions that show she listened and can help me help myself.

Written on Mar 01, 2022 after therapy with Mary for 6 months on issues concerning relationship

Mary continues to be an excellent therapist; we very much appreciate her expertise on every level.

Written on Jan 25, 2022 after therapy with Mary for 1 year and 4 months

Mary is the best

Written on Jan 20, 2022 after therapy with Mary for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship

Mary is so wonderful. She has been incredibly responsive and compassionate to the problems discussed. I would very much recommend her!

Written on Dec 30, 2021 after therapy with Mary for 4 months on issues concerning relationship

My husband and I have worked with a few therapists over the years. Our experience with Mary really stands out. She has a good way of getting to the heart of an issue, moderating respectfully but effectively, and guiding each conversation to resolution. When we are not in session, we find ourselves referring to the very useful tools Mary has taught us. We feel very lucky to have found her.

Written on Sep 21, 2021 after therapy with Mary for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, and coping with life changes

Mary Allen has me understand a lot in life and with my relationships with my person and my family I highly recommend her.

Written on Sep 09, 2021 after therapy with Mary for 5 months

As a family we highly recommend Mary Allen. Our Daughter in her struggles truly benefited from Mary’s expertise in counseling

Written on Aug 19, 2021 after therapy with Mary for 1 year on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, bipolar disorder, and coping with life changes

She is great. Knows how to do her job. I with price was lower, have friends who need her.

Written on Jul 14, 2021 after therapy with Mary for 10 months on issues concerning lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, and coaching

Mary Allen is the most genuine & kind therapist. She challenges me in a way that works for me. She has the best advise & has helped me so much

Written on Jun 28, 2021 after therapy with Mary for 2 months

I have had therapists at different points in my life and Mary Allen is by far one of the best ones I’ve ever been lucky enough to seek support from! She is so easy to talk to. She poses amazing questions and suggests different perspectives in order for me to come up with some really life changing answers! She makes herself available and is super quick about replying to messages. I recommend her to anyone seeking a therapist.

Written on Apr 19, 2021 after therapy with Mary for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and relationship issues

Mary has been a tremendous help in just a few short weeks. She listens and provides the advice and tools I need to work through my issues. I appreciate her guidance as well as her kindness and caring.

Written on Apr 11, 2021 after therapy with Mary for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, grief, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, and coaching

Mary is very approachable and I feel comfortable sharing details about my life with her, which allows me to get the most out of our sessions. I started using some of the tactics that she suggested and found that they helped me manage my anxiety and cycle of negative thinking. I look forward to our weekly sessions. Mary has been very responsive to my messages and has provided useful tools to refer to between sessions.

Written on Mar 22, 2021 after therapy with Mary for 7 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, career difficulties, coaching, and compassion fatigue

Mary Allen is the best counselor I have ever had in my life. She is objective, thoughtful, dedicated and I feel like I have been able to resolve my issues and heal because of her. I started seeing her when things were really difficult for me and she is there for me consistently through everything. The best gift she has given me is the way to think through the problems in my life. She is a positive force in my life and I'm very grateful to work with her. She is really the best!

Written on Jan 16, 2021 after therapy with Mary for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, eating disorders, and self esteem

Mary Allen is patient and easy to work with. She is very helpful and genuinely cares for the people she works with.

Written on Dec 15, 2020 after therapy with Mary for 3 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, parenting issues, self esteem, and career difficulties

She is very proactive. Stays engaged and reaches out if she hasn’t heard from me. Helps me to not ignore my troubles.

Written on Dec 08, 2020 after therapy with Mary for 1 month on issues concerning relationship

Mary is such a awesome person. I feel like we have known her for ever. Without her i dont know where my marriage would be. Having the tools that she has presented us to remold our marriage has 100% saved us. All in a nutshell i feel like i fell in love all over again and its such a great feeling. People around me can tell things are going better at home and when i hear my friends talk about how there relationship has gone down hill i just tell them i know someone thats pretty cool and will help you get back on track! Her name is Mary Allen!

Written on Dec 01, 2020 after therapy with Mary for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, self esteem, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue

Mary Allen is warm, responsive, sharp, and very caring! I'm also a therapist and very picky about my counselors- and Mary is top notch!

Written on Nov 27, 2020 after therapy with Mary for 2 months on issues concerning relationship

Not that many people could be a perfect fit for my husband and I and Mary Allen is.

Written on Oct 07, 2020 after therapy with Mary for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship

Mary has been so helpful and the email option for us has been tremendously convenient.

Written on Sep 23, 2020 after therapy with Mary for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

Mary is great! She responds in a timely manner, prompts good questions and gives us a variety of things to work on that are applicable on a daily basis

Written on Sep 23, 2020 after therapy with Mary for 2 weeks

It has been a very short time that I have been working with Mary Allen and I have had great success for the time we have been working together. She a has shared comments, suggestions, work sheets and valuable information that has really helped me. I look forward with working with Mary Allen to make even more improvements in my relationship.

Written on Sep 17, 2020 after therapy with Mary for 2 weeks

I really enjoy her advice, she listens and brings up great ideas and try’s to work with me to help my son

Written on Sep 03, 2020 after therapy with Mary for 1 month on issues concerning relationship

Mary has been extremely helpful! She helps keep us on track and genuinely cares about us. We are so lucky to have her in our lives.

Written on Aug 19, 2020 after therapy with Mary for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

Mary Allen is a skilled clinician who is able to understand the fundamental concerns in a relationship and help couples work through them. We have the tools to better support and love each other now, thanks to Mary Allen’s expertise

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